How to Talk to Actors—So They Give You Real Performances

A practical, psychology-based directing method that shows you exactly what to say to actors—so your scenes feel truthful, alive, and professional.


The Problem 

Most directors don’t struggle with cameras.
They struggle with communication.

  • “More emotion” doesn’t work

  • Telling actors how to feel kills authenticity

  • Film school rarely teaches this

If your performances feel flat or forced, this is why.


The Solution

How to Talk to Actors gives you a clear, repeatable system for directing performances—without guesswork, conflict, or vague notes.

No theory. No fluff.
Just language actors understand.


What You’ll Get

In this guide, you’ll learn how to:

  • Direct actors without telling them how to feel

  • Create subtext the camera loves

  • Use actions, obstacles, and circumstances to unlock emotion

  • Fix false moments quickly on set

  • Build trust so actors give you their best work

All taught through real examples used by professional directors.


Why This Works

Written by Miguel Parga—Emmy & Peabody Award–winning filmmaker and educator who has taught thousands of filmmakers how to direct actors using principles, not tricks. Bestselling author of What They Didn't Teach You In Film School and Make Your Own Movies.

This is the missing skill most directors never learn.


The Outcome

Finish this guide and you’ll:

  • Communicate with actors confidently

  • Get stronger, more truthful performances

  • Feel in control on set—without being controlling

Your films will feel more human.
Your actors will want to work with you again.

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Because great performances start with the right words.

Jimena Arguelles

Producer

“Miguel confirmed like no other my love for movies, production and storytelling, he inspired me, to go for it, and gave me the tools to do it the best way possible”

Emilio Frenk

Writer / Commentator

“Working with Miguel is an amazing experience. His advice and his mentoring has played a key role in my career in the film and entertainment industry.”

Fernanda Alberdi

Director / Producer

“Miguel has been one of the mentors who has most profoundly shaped me as a filmmaker — not only for what makes him a great teacher, but for constantly challenging me to step out of my comfort zone.”